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Hello and welcome. The Relationship Gym website is dedicated to offering quality relationship advice or love help to couples and singles. Few relationships are free from friction but it's my belief that they can be a whole lot better than most of us make them.
Given all we now know about relationships there really is no excuse for tolerating one that is less than fantastic. With this in mind we take singles through a process that ensures they make a much better choice when it comes to marriage. Those who are already in a relationship generally got together for a good reason and it's our job to help them remember those reasons and get them back on track.
If you’re experiencing difficulties in your relationship, and let’s face it you’re here for a reason, then the relationship advice and love help resources on this website can help you find relationship answers to your relationship problems and pain.
What Relationship Advice do we Offer?
The bulk of our work is relationship coaching – via the telephone. However, we recognise that some times you just need a quality article with relationship advice, often all that is needed is some quick, targetted help. If it's targetted articles you want check out the box above called 'Free Love Help'.
The advice and help we offer is based on over 20 years experience of Michael Myerscough's work as a coach and counsellor. However, it is difficult to know exactly what relationship problems you might be facing. So an Emergency Session with one of our relationship coaches, focused on your needs and your particular situation might suit you best at this moment in time.
Otherwise, you can find lots of practical relationship advice through our Coaching Programmes, E-Books and Resource library. If when you’ve browsed the website, you feel that you need more focussed help to make the changes that you need to work out your love life, then please get in contact with us.
The Relationship Gym Commitment to Working Out Your Love Life.
Our coaches are truly gifted when it comes to helping people make the necessary changes to their love life and relationships. Don't just take it from us but see what other people say in the Testimonials section. I love getting testimonials and you can trust these are all true. So, do you want and believe YOU deserve to have the best relationship with the partner of your dreams?
Please feel free to browse, enjoy our website and find out how YOU can improve your chances for a great relationship and a better love life TODAY!
Michael Myerscough
Head Coach, CCUI
The Relationship Gym
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Testimonials
If Michael can't save your marriage, then it may not be salvageable.
Michael is fantastic! Thanks to him, our marriage has been saved and our passion for each other has been renewed.
At first his insight was a little alarming, but it is so well balanced with compassion and humour and we quickly realized it was going to be ok. We knew exactly what we needed to change, and how to go about it, within the first session. It's been an incredible journey for us both and we couldn't be more pleased or grateful.
George and Susan in Ireland
Michael literally saved my marriage.
My marriage was in a real state. My sex life was a mess and we seemed to spend most of our lives being angry at each other. I was contemplating leaving the relationship even though I knew that would be excruciatingly painful.
On the course, working with Michael, I learnt what I needed from my relationship to make it work.
Jessica, USA
Seeing a Positive Future
If I were to advise anyone who found themselves in the unfortunate position that I was last year, and I had to sum up my learning with you it would be; find someone who's advice you can trust implicitly, open your mind to suggestions that feel completely alien to everything that you want to do and say at the time of your trauma.
Do not fight the feelings, allow them to happen, accept that they are normal and part of the healing.
But you did and for that I am truly grateful. I am not sure of the ending yet but I know that I will never go back to that version of me.
Pamela
Reworked dating profile brings the kind of response you’re sceptical of hearing about
One of the areas I asked Michael to help me with was preparing an internet dating profile.
Michael was upfront and honest in providing his “unprintable” comments on the first draft of the profile. However, with his advice on photographs and some further redrafting, I had a profile which started to receive the sort of responses you sceptically read about on a website selling cheap internet dating e-books.
When I was in my deepest pain in the beginning, your workbook and exercises were the reins that I was able hold on to ...
I was able to take back my power and do this with dignity and respect for myself. For this I am very grateful and would recommend your website and work to others and hope to be in a postion to help others myself one day...I hope to take you up on your offer of finding my life partner soon too...I will let you know how this goes!!'
If Michael can't save your marriage, then it may not be salvageable.
Michael is fantastic! Thanks to him, our marriage has been saved and our passion for each other has been renewed.
At first his insight was a little alarming, but it is so well balanced with compassion and humour and we quickly realized it was going to be ok. We knew exactly what we needed to change, and how to go about it, within the first session. It's been an incredible journey for us both and we couldn't be more pleased or grateful.
George and Susan in Ireland
Michael literally saved my marriage.
My marriage was in a real state. My sex life was a mess and we seemed to spend most of our lives being angry at each other. I was contemplating leaving the relationship even though I knew that would be excruciatingly painful.
On the course, working with Michael, I learnt what I needed from my relationship to make it work.
Jessica, USA
Seeing a Positive Future
If I were to advise anyone who found themselves in the unfortunate position that I was last year, and I had to sum up my learning with you it would be; find someone who's advice you can trust implicitly, open your mind to suggestions that feel completely alien to everything that you want to do and say at the time of your trauma.
Do not fight the feelings, allow them to happen, accept that they are normal and part of the healing.
But you did and for that I am truly grateful. I am not sure of the ending yet but I know that I will never go back to that version of me.
Pamela
Reworked dating profile brings the kind of response you’re sceptical of hearing about
One of the areas I asked Michael to help me with was preparing an internet dating profile.
Michael was upfront and honest in providing his “unprintable” comments on the first draft of the profile. However, with his advice on photographs and some further redrafting, I had a profile which started to receive the sort of responses you sceptically read about on a website selling cheap internet dating e-books.
When I was in my deepest pain in the beginning, your workbook and exercises were the reins that I was able hold on to ...
I was able to take back my power and do this with dignity and respect for myself. For this I am very grateful and would recommend your website and work to others and hope to be in a postion to help others myself one day...I hope to take you up on your offer of finding my life partner soon too...I will let you know how this goes!!'
If Michael can't save your marriage, then it may not be salvageable.
Michael is fantastic! Thanks to him, our marriage has been saved and our passion for each other has been renewed.
At first his insight was a little alarming, but it is so well balanced with compassion and humour and we quickly realized it was going to be ok. We knew exactly what we needed to change, and how to go about it, within the first session. It's been an incredible journey for us both and we couldn't be more pleased or grateful.
George and Susan in Ireland
Michael literally saved my marriage.
My marriage was in a real state. My sex life was a mess and we seemed to spend most of our lives being angry at each other. I was contemplating leaving the relationship even though I knew that would be excruciatingly painful.
On the course, working with Michael, I learnt what I needed from my relationship to make it work.
Jessica, USA
Seeing a Positive Future
If I were to advise anyone who found themselves in the unfortunate position that I was last year, and I had to sum up my learning with you it would be; find someone who's advice you can trust implicitly, open your mind to suggestions that feel completely alien to everything that you want to do and say at the time of your trauma.
Do not fight the feelings, allow them to happen, accept that they are normal and part of the healing.
But you did and for that I am truly grateful. I am not sure of the ending yet but I know that I will never go back to that version of me.
Pamela
Reworked dating profile brings the kind of response you’re sceptical of hearing about
One of the areas I asked Michael to help me with was preparing an internet dating profile.
Michael was upfront and honest in providing his “unprintable” comments on the first draft of the profile. However, with his advice on photographs and some further redrafting, I had a profile which started to receive the sort of responses you sceptically read about on a website selling cheap internet dating e-books.
When I was in my deepest pain in the beginning, your workbook and exercises were the reins that I was able hold on to ...
I was able to take back my power and do this with dignity and respect for myself. For this I am very grateful and would recommend your website and work to others and hope to be in a postion to help others myself one day...I hope to take you up on your offer of finding my life partner soon too...I will let you know how this goes!!'
If Michael can't save your marriage, then it may not be salvageable.
Michael is fantastic! Thanks to him, our marriage has been saved and our passion for each other has been renewed.
At first his insight was a little alarming, but it is so well balanced with compassion and humour and we quickly realized it was going to be ok. We knew exactly what we needed to change, and how to go about it, within the first session. It's been an incredible journey for us both and we couldn't be more pleased or grateful.
George and Susan in Ireland
Michael literally saved my marriage.
My marriage was in a real state. My sex life was a mess and we seemed to spend most of our lives being angry at each other. I was contemplating leaving the relationship even though I knew that would be excruciatingly painful.
On the course, working with Michael, I learnt what I needed from my relationship to make it work.
Jessica, USA
Seeing a Positive Future
If I were to advise anyone who found themselves in the unfortunate position that I was last year, and I had to sum up my learning with you it would be; find someone who's advice you can trust implicitly, open your mind to suggestions that feel completely alien to everything that you want to do and say at the time of your trauma.
Do not fight the feelings, allow them to happen, accept that they are normal and part of the healing.
But you did and for that I am truly grateful. I am not sure of the ending yet but I know that I will never go back to that version of me.
Pamela
Reworked dating profile brings the kind of response you’re sceptical of hearing about
One of the areas I asked Michael to help me with was preparing an internet dating profile.
Michael was upfront and honest in providing his “unprintable” comments on the first draft of the profile. However, with his advice on photographs and some further redrafting, I had a profile which started to receive the sort of responses you sceptically read about on a website selling cheap internet dating e-books.
When I was in my deepest pain in the beginning, your workbook and exercises were the reins that I was able hold on to ...
I was able to take back my power and do this with dignity and respect for myself. For this I am very grateful and would recommend your website and work to others and hope to be in a postion to help others myself one day...I hope to take you up on your offer of finding my life partner soon too...I will let you know how this goes!!'
If Michael can't save your marriage, then it may not be salvageable.
Michael is fantastic! Thanks to him, our marriage has been saved and our passion for each other has been renewed.
At first his insight was a little alarming, but it is so well balanced with compassion and humour and we quickly realized it was going to be ok. We knew exactly what we needed to change, and how to go about it, within the first session. It's been an incredible journey for us both and we couldn't be more pleased or grateful.
George and Susan in Ireland
Michael literally saved my marriage.
My marriage was in a real state. My sex life was a mess and we seemed to spend most of our lives being angry at each other. I was contemplating leaving the relationship even though I knew that would be excruciatingly painful.
On the course, working with Michael, I learnt what I needed from my relationship to make it work.
Jessica, USA
Seeing a Positive Future
If I were to advise anyone who found themselves in the unfortunate position that I was last year, and I had to sum up my learning with you it would be; find someone who's advice you can trust implicitly, open your mind to suggestions that feel completely alien to everything that you want to do and say at the time of your trauma.
Do not fight the feelings, allow them to happen, accept that they are normal and part of the healing.
But you did and for that I am truly grateful. I am not sure of the ending yet but I know that I will never go back to that version of me.
Pamela
Reworked dating profile brings the kind of response you’re sceptical of hearing about
One of the areas I asked Michael to help me with was preparing an internet dating profile.
Michael was upfront and honest in providing his “unprintable” comments on the first draft of the profile. However, with his advice on photographs and some further redrafting, I had a profile which started to receive the sort of responses you sceptically read about on a website selling cheap internet dating e-books.
When I was in my deepest pain in the beginning, your workbook and exercises were the reins that I was able hold on to ...
I was able to take back my power and do this with dignity and respect for myself. For this I am very grateful and would recommend your website and work to others and hope to be in a postion to help others myself one day...I hope to take you up on your offer of finding my life partner soon too...I will let you know how this goes!!'
If Michael can't save your marriage, then it may not be salvageable.
Michael is fantastic! Thanks to him, our marriage has been saved and our passion for each other has been renewed.
At first his insight was a little alarming, but it is so well balanced with compassion and humour and we quickly realized it was going to be ok. We knew exactly what we needed to change, and how to go about it, within the first session. It's been an incredible journey for us both and we couldn't be more pleased or grateful.
George and Susan in Ireland
Michael literally saved my marriage.
My marriage was in a real state. My sex life was a mess and we seemed to spend most of our lives being angry at each other. I was contemplating leaving the relationship even though I knew that would be excruciatingly painful.
On the course, working with Michael, I learnt what I needed from my relationship to make it work.
Jessica, USA
Seeing a Positive Future
If I were to advise anyone who found themselves in the unfortunate position that I was last year, and I had to sum up my learning with you it would be; find someone who's advice you can trust implicitly, open your mind to suggestions that feel completely alien to everything that you want to do and say at the time of your trauma.
Do not fight the feelings, allow them to happen, accept that they are normal and part of the healing.
But you did and for that I am truly grateful. I am not sure of the ending yet but I know that I will never go back to that version of me.
Pamela
Reworked dating profile brings the kind of response you’re sceptical of hearing about
One of the areas I asked Michael to help me with was preparing an internet dating profile.
Michael was upfront and honest in providing his “unprintable” comments on the first draft of the profile. However, with his advice on photographs and some further redrafting, I had a profile which started to receive the sort of responses you sceptically read about on a website selling cheap internet dating e-books.
When I was in my deepest pain in the beginning, your workbook and exercises were the reins that I was able hold on to ...
I was able to take back my power and do this with dignity and respect for myself. For this I am very grateful and would recommend your website and work to others and hope to be in a postion to help others myself one day...I hope to take you up on your offer of finding my life partner soon too...I will let you know how this goes!!'
If Michael can't save your marriage, then it may not be salvageable.
Michael is fantastic! Thanks to him, our marriage has been saved and our passion for each other has been renewed.
At first his insight was a little alarming, but it is so well balanced with compassion and humour and we quickly realized it was going to be ok. We knew exactly what we needed to change, and how to go about it, within the first session. It's been an incredible journey for us both and we couldn't be more pleased or grateful.
George and Susan in Ireland
Michael literally saved my marriage.
My marriage was in a real state. My sex life was a mess and we seemed to spend most of our lives being angry at each other. I was contemplating leaving the relationship even though I knew that would be excruciatingly painful.
On the course, working with Michael, I learnt what I needed from my relationship to make it work.
Jessica, USA
Seeing a Positive Future
If I were to advise anyone who found themselves in the unfortunate position that I was last year, and I had to sum up my learning with you it would be; find someone who's advice you can trust implicitly, open your mind to suggestions that feel completely alien to everything that you want to do and say at the time of your trauma.
Do not fight the feelings, allow them to happen, accept that they are normal and part of the healing.
But you did and for that I am truly grateful. I am not sure of the ending yet but I know that I will never go back to that version of me.
Pamela
Reworked dating profile brings the kind of response you’re sceptical of hearing about
One of the areas I asked Michael to help me with was preparing an internet dating profile.
Michael was upfront and honest in providing his “unprintable” comments on the first draft of the profile. However, with his advice on photographs and some further redrafting, I had a profile which started to receive the sort of responses you sceptically read about on a website selling cheap internet dating e-books.
When I was in my deepest pain in the beginning, your workbook and exercises were the reins that I was able hold on to ...
I was able to take back my power and do this with dignity and respect for myself. For this I am very grateful and would recommend your website and work to others and hope to be in a postion to help others myself one day...I hope to take you up on your offer of finding my life partner soon too...I will let you know how this goes!!'
If Michael can't save your marriage, then it may not be salvageable.
Michael is fantastic! Thanks to him, our marriage has been saved and our passion for each other has been renewed.
At first his insight was a little alarming, but it is so well balanced with compassion and humour and we quickly realized it was going to be ok. We knew exactly what we needed to change, and how to go about it, within the first session. It's been an incredible journey for us both and we couldn't be more pleased or grateful.
George and Susan in Ireland
Michael literally saved my marriage.
My marriage was in a real state. My sex life was a mess and we seemed to spend most of our lives being angry at each other. I was contemplating leaving the relationship even though I knew that would be excruciatingly painful.
On the course, working with Michael, I learnt what I needed from my relationship to make it work.
Jessica, USA
Seeing a Positive Future
If I were to advise anyone who found themselves in the unfortunate position that I was last year, and I had to sum up my learning with you it would be; find someone who's advice you can trust implicitly, open your mind to suggestions that feel completely alien to everything that you want to do and say at the time of your trauma.
Do not fight the feelings, allow them to happen, accept that they are normal and part of the healing.
But you did and for that I am truly grateful. I am not sure of the ending yet but I know that I will never go back to that version of me.
Pamela
Reworked dating profile brings the kind of response you’re sceptical of hearing about
One of the areas I asked Michael to help me with was preparing an internet dating profile.
Michael was upfront and honest in providing his “unprintable” comments on the first draft of the profile. However, with his advice on photographs and some further redrafting, I had a profile which started to receive the sort of responses you sceptically read about on a website selling cheap internet dating e-books.
When I was in my deepest pain in the beginning, your workbook and exercises were the reins that I was able hold on to ...
I was able to take back my power and do this with dignity and respect for myself. For this I am very grateful and would recommend your website and work to others and hope to be in a postion to help others myself one day...I hope to take you up on your offer of finding my life partner soon too...I will let you know how this goes!!'
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